The Pressure to be a Perfect Parent

August 6, 2012

There has never been greater pressure on parents to be perfect than there is today. Mothers, in particular, struggle with judgmental comments and unhelpful stigmas. It should not come as a surprise that parents have resorted to lying in order to seem more in control than they are:

A study found new mothers are under increasing pressure due to children waking up in the night, meaning they are not getting enough sleep.

However, parents are lying about their children’s disrupted sleep patterns, fearing it will make them look like bad parents.

A fifth of those who admit lying about it pretend their child is sleeping through the night, the survey by Netmums found.

Parents also frequently cover up how badly they were coping with sleep deprivation – 62 per cent of the third who lied, and one in 50 mums and dads are so desperate for sleep they have hired a specialist to help them – costing £1,000 a week.

The Netmums report showed a quarter of all UK kids wake up before 6.30am everyday – meaning their parents never get enough sleep.

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Psychologist Claims Cyberbullying Concerns are Exaggerated

August 5, 2012

I can’t believe a psychologist would go on record claiming that the recent attention on cyberbullying is overstated:

Old-style face-to-face bullying is still the way most young people are victimized, even though it’s cyberbullying that seems to get all the headlines, an international bullying expert told psychology professionals Saturday.

Reports of a cyberbullying explosion over the past few years because of increasing use of mobile devices have been greatly exaggerated, says psychologist Dan Olweus of the University of Bergen in Bergen, Norway. He says his latest research, published this spring in the European Journal of Developmental Psychology, finds not many students report being bullied online at all.

“Contradicting these claims, it turns out that cyberbullying, when studied in proper context, is a low-prevalence phenomenon, which has not increased over time and has not created many ‘new’ victims and bullies,” the study finds.

The reason that such attention has been devoted to cyberbullying awareness is three fold:

1. Cyberbullying numbers are growing. Why should we dismiss something until it becomes a problem we are not prepared for?

2. Cyberbullying is, more than likely, the most destructive for of bullying. Unlike face-to-face bullying that happens in schoolyards and parks amongst a finite group of people, cyberbullying penetrates the safest room (the victim’s bedroom) and can be easily disseminated to an audience of thousands.

3. Teachers can deal with school bullying. It is much harder for significant adults to monitor cyberbullying.

Cyberbullying should never be diminished in any way.

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The Toy that Stopped a Child Porn Ring

August 5, 2012

The child porn network that was exposed by a stuffed bunny rabbit:

The men came from different walks of life on two continents: a children’s puppeteer in Florida, a hotel manager in Massachusetts, an emergency medical technician in Kansas, a day care worker in the Netherlands. In all, 43 men have been arrested over the past two years in a horrific, far-flung child porn network that unraveled like a sweater with a single loose thread.

In this case, the thread was a stuffed toy bunny.

The bunny, seen in a photo of a half-naked, distraught 18-month-old boy, was used to painstakingly trace a molester to Amsterdam. From there, investigators made one arrest after another of men accused of sexually abusing children, exchanging explicit photos of the attacks and even chatting online about abducting, cooking and eating youngsters.

Authorities have identified more than 140 young victims so far and say there is no end in sight as they pore through hundreds of thousands of images found on the suspects’ computers. They are also trying to determine whether the men who talked about murder and cannibalism actually committed such acts or were just sharing twisted fantasies.

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The Top 50 Best Apps for Children

August 5, 2012

Courtesy of The Guardian comes 50 of the best smartphone/iPad apps for children. Below is a snippet:

EDUCATION

Farm 123 app logo

FARM 123 – STORYTOYS JR iPhone/iPad – £1.49. Farm 123 aims to be a digital version of pop-up books, based on a character called Farmer Jo and his animals. It’s aimed at pre-school-age children, teaching them to count from one to 10 with cows, pigs and eggs.

Funimal Phonics app logo

FUNIMAL PHONICS iPhone/iPad – £0.69. Children and parents are well-used to phonics alphabet-learning now, and this stylish flash-cards app gives the discipline a friendly animal face. It’s also notable for its inclusion of both US and UK English accents when speaking sounds.

Little Digits app logo

LITTLE DIGITS iPad – £1.49. This marvellous numbers app gets your child to count by placing fingers on the iPad’s touchscreen, with cute cartoon numbers appearing, depending on how many fingers are pressed. Simple maths tasks give it an educational angle too.

My A-Z app logo

MY A-Z iPhone/iPad – £1.49. There are lots of alphabetical flash-card apps for iPhone, but this one stands out for its personalisation. Children can add their own photos and sounds for letters – a picture of their dog and its bark for “D”, and so on.

Numberlys app logo

NUMBERLYS iPhone/iPad – £3.99. Despite the name, this beautiful app is more about letters than numbers. It’s a mixture of games and storytelling to explain the origins of the alphabet, with a visual style influenced by films like Metropolis and the original King Kong.

Times Tables: Squeebles Multiplication

TIMES TABLES: SQUEEBLES MULTIPLICATION iPhone/iPad/Android – £0.69. This UK-developed app is aimed at 5- to 11-year-olds, providing a series of multiplication questions to earn stars and rescue cutesy characters from a nefarious Maths Monster. Up to four children can save their progress on one device.

The Singing Alphabet app logo

THE SINGING ALPHABET iPhone/iPad – £0.69. A stylish app that does what it says on the tin: letters that sing. Specifically, they sing their own phonetic sounds, and can be combined to make harmonies and tunes. Given five minutes, your child will be singing along too.

Counting with the Very Hungry Caterpillar app logo

COUNTING WITH THE VERY HUNGRY CATERPILLAR iPhone/iPad – £1.99. Eric Carle’s famous book about a fruit-munching caterpillar has been turned into a fun educational game with a mathematical skew. Your child identifies, counts and adds the foods over five levels, ensuring it appeals to a range of ages.

Around the Clock app logo

AROUND THE CLOCK iPhone/iPad – £1.49. This time-focused app wears its educational spurs lightly. It’s a collection of 24 mini-games, one for each hour of the day, from toothbrushing to pancake making. The idea is to familiarise children with the clock.

Barefoot World Atlas app logo

BAREFOOT WORLD ATLAS iPad – £2.99. If you have a child who is just becoming interested in geography, this is an essential buy. It’s a digital globe with music and animation, drawing kids in to the meat of its text and photographic entries on countries, people and nature.

Change4Life Fun Generator app logo

CHANGE4LIFE FUN GENERATOR iPhone/iPad/Android – Free. Part of a wider Department of Health initiative to get families out and about, this app suggests more than 100 activities for children, filtering them by indoors/outdoors and the number of participants. A summer-holiday lifesaver for parents.

Cooper's Pack: London Children's Travel Guide app logo

COOPER’S PACK: LONDON CHILDREN’S TRAVEL GUIDE iPhone/iPad – £1.49. For parents taking their children to London as a tourist, what better guide than a stuffed dog named Cooper? This travel app is a story-based guide to London’s history and attractions, with plenty of interactivity to keep children reading.

Famigo Sandbox app logo

FAMIGO SANDBOX Android – Free. If you’re handing over an Android device to a child, Famigo Sandbox is invaluable. It filters the apps on your phone to only show those suitable for children, locks off other features, and recommends new apps they might like.

Move the Turtle app logo

MOVE THE TURTLE iPhone/iPad – £1.99. Can five-year-olds start learning to program? They can with this app, which aims to teach the basics of computer programming by planning tasks – all presented by a friendly turtle character to spark their imagination.

The Happy Face app logo

THE HAPPY FACE iPhone/iPad – £0.69. Most parents have used a reward chart for their children at some point. This turns the idea into an app for use while out and about, moving children’s photos onto a happy or sad face according to their behaviour.

Your Fantastic Elastic Brain app logo

YOUR FANTASTIC ELASTIC BRAIN iPad – £1.99. Aimed at five-year-olds and up, this is a book app all about brains, using illustration and animation to explain some complex science, while throwing in “brain workout” games to help children stretch their grey cells.

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Teachers Who Have Sex with Students Must be Imprisoned

August 4, 2012

 

Losing your license is not an appropriate consequence for engaging in sexual activity with your students. It certainly doesn’t deter other teachers from doing the same:

Kristle Vandever, a former English as a second language teacher in Oregon, has lost her teaching license for engaging in sexual activity with “one or more students” and providing underage students with alcohol. But now, some are wondering why she’s not in jail.

A report out by the state of Oregon reveals that the 44-year-old educator at McNary Heights Elementary violated five major codes for teachers during her career. She resigned in May 2010 amid a district investigation, though her license wasn’t officially revoked until last month, the Hermiston Herald reports.

Immediately following her resignation, Vandever reportedly sent a boasting email from her school account.

“No jail for me and that is only because of luck … no witnesses coming forward,” the message reads. “He said he was of legal age, but he lied. I just can’t help wanting these hot young boys … and they want me. Who am I to spoil a young man’s fantasy. Damn.”

Her arrogance says it all. This is deplorable behaviour. It must be punished by a lengthy jail sentence.

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Saggy Pants Leads to a Very Sticky Situation

August 3, 2012

Teachers are losing their cool, and while it’s inexcusable, it comes from the lack of respect our teachers are treated with:

Pat Frost, an English as a second language teacher for Anson High School in North Carolina, may lose her job after admitting to slapping a student during a dispute over saggy pants.

Frost was suspended after the incident occurred in June, and the district is still investigating the charges. At the time, she reportedly stopped 18-year-old Johnathan Smith to tell him to pull up his sagging pants. But Smith didn’t comply, allegedly telling the teacher to “get the [expletive] out of his way” and shoved past her, WBTV reports.

When Frost followed him outside, reportedly to record his name, the teen began to charge at her, yelling that he would “[expletive] her up.”

Smith told WSOC-TV, however, that he did pick up his pants and told the teacher his name — but Frost didn’t believe him.

“I never thought a teacher would lay her hands on me,” Smith told the station.

Frost’s attorney argues that Smith refused to give his real name and repeatedly threatened to assault her. Frost says her blow was out of self defense.

“Fearing she was about to be hit, Pat tried to create distance with the student and slapped him in the face in that effort,” according to a letter from Frost’s attorney. “He responded by striking Pat in the head. He then took off his shirt and started pounding on nearby cars in the parking lot yelling that he was going to get her fired and hoped that she would be killed.”

I am afraid that episodes like this will become extremely frequent if something isn’t done to improve teacher/student relations.

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Social Media: A Playground for Bullies

August 3, 2012

 

For all it’s benefits, social media is an invitation for bullies to wreak havoc:

The Internet can be a hostile place, and Twitter is no exception. According to a new study, about 15,000 bullying-related tweets are posted every day, meaning more than 100,000 nasty messages taint the digital world each week.

To further understand what happens in the virtual world, researchers from the University of Wisconsin in Madison trained a computer to analyze Twitter messages using an algorithm created to point out important words or symbols that may indicate bullying. In 2011, during the time of this study, 250 million public tweets were being sent daily — a number almost 10 times the population of the state of Texas.

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The Fake Piercing Craze is Proving to Be a Dangerous One

August 2, 2012

One can see why fake piercings are popular among pre-teens and teenagers alike. Only trouble is, they are potentially very dangerous:

PRE-TEENS and teenagers are putting their health at serious risk by using magnetic balls as fake body piercings.

Medical authorities are concerned about the magnets, saying they can perforate the intestine if swallowed, resulting in emergency surgery in some cases.

The ball bearing-sized balls are commonly marketed as a desk toy, but tweens and teens place them on either side of their tongue or lip to mimic a piercing.

Fake magnetic “body piercings” are also available online.

Paediatric surgeon Prof Andrew Holland from The Childrens Hospital at Westmead says while the magnetic balls might look harmless, parents should be aware of the dangers.

“The magnetic force in these balls is exceptionally strong,” Prof Holland said in a statement on Wednesday.

“It can quite easily force two pieces of intestine together, leading to twisting or even perforation.”

Once damaged, bowel contents could leak into the abdominal cavity, resulting in a severe infection.

More than 200 cases of children swallowing the balls have been recorded worldwide and Westmead has treated four cases in the past few months.

Among them was eight-year-old Joel Smith, who underwent five hours of emergency surgery after accidentally swallowing six magnetic balls he had been using as fake piercings.

The magnets had clamped on either side of his stomach wall and doctors believed his bowel was just hours away from rupturing.

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August 2, 2012

Courtesy of Dr. Chelom’s brilliant blog, a breakthrough finding that may prove extremely beneficial for autistic children.

Dr Vadim Chelom's avatarDr Vadim the Visiting Vet

Research demonstrates that spending time with pets can help autistic children develop social skills:

‘The study, from French researchers, is the first strong scientific evidence that animals may help foster social skills in individuals with autism, but it also reinforces what clinicians have been hearing anecdotally for years.

“We hear from parents a lot that having a pet or interacting with an animal really helps their child’s social behavior, but there hasn’t been a study so far that has looked at that scientifically,” said Alycia Halladay, director of environmental research at Autism Speaks. “This offers some intriguing evidence to confirm what parents have been saying.

How do pets help:

  • Pets are predictable. Some owners would disagree but pets have smaller range of predictable emotions comparing to humans. This can help autistic kids recognise their pets’ emotions more easily.
  • Pets have buckets of time. Research shows that one of the biggest…

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Teacher Lied About Killing a Girl in Car Accident to Get a Day off Work

August 2, 2012

How repulsive is this story?

A music teacher has admitted lying about killing a girl in an horrific car accident in order to avoid going to work.

Derek McGlone, 42, who was head of music at Calderhead High School in North Lanarkshire, appeared at a General Teaching Council Scotland (GTCS) hearing where the panel found his fitness to teach was impaired.

The teacher also missed work on another occasion when he told a deputy head that he was caught up in Iceland’s ash cloud, despite being at home in Glasgow, as well as embarking on a drunken Facebook rant where he called other staff “bitches.”

The hearing also heard how his former colleagues had complained that his comments were abusive and threatening.

The worst part of this story is how lenient his punishment was:

The Panel considered that making no order or removing the Respondent’s name from the Register would be disproportionate to the seriousness of the complaints.

“In the whole circumstances of the case, and in view of the representations made by the Presenting Officer and the Respondent, the Panel considered that the appropriate outcome in this case is that a reprimand be recorded in the Register against the Respondent’s name for a period of twelve months from the date of expiry of the appeal period specified in the Rules.”

A reprimand has been recorded in the teaching register against Mr McGlone’s name for 12 months.

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