Archive for the ‘Child Welfare’ Category

The Era of Protecting the Criminal and Leaving the Victim High and Dry

October 30, 2012

 

A scandal erupts where a child care worker allegedly rapes a young child. Were the parents who send their children to this center informed?

Of course not!

That would be acting transparently and we can’t have that! Fancy putting the interests of the victim over the welfare of the accused:

POLICE reject claim by Education Minister Grace Portolesi that they advised against telling parents that an out-of-hours school care program staff member sexually assaulted a child in his care.

Mark Christopher Harvey, of Largs North, was convicted in February this year of unlawful sexual intercourse with a young girl in 2010 while she was attending his out-of-hours school care program in the northwestern suburbs.

However, a mother of children who also used the program – who did not want to be named – has said parents were never informed.

Ms Portolesi emphatically told Parliament yesterday the decision to keep the information from parents had been “on the advice of SAPOL”.

However, a statement released last night by SA Police said the principal of the school involved was “advised by police that she should consult with DECS (the Education Department) to formulate a method of advising the school community what had occurred”.

Ms Portolesi refused to respond to the statement and stood by her earlier comments in Parliament.

The mother who spoke yesterday said her two children only told her there was a problem after a school friend saw Harvey on the TV news.

Her children were interviewed this year by police after raising their own concerns about Harvey.

At no time since his arrest had the school or the  notified parents oEducation Department apologised and no counselling had been offered, the mother said.

“I just want to know why we weren’t advised,” she said.

“I think it’s our right. I feel like a failure as a mother because I was not advised of this and was not able to help my children from the start.”

In Parliament, Ms Portolesi said that Harvey’s employment was “immediately terminated” on discovering his offence.

Opposition education spokesman David Pisoni told Parliament Harvey had been employed by the department for a month after his arrest.

“Why has the community not been officially notified?” he said.

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The Desperate Need to Instill Self-Respect in Our Students

October 25, 2012

One of my most important challenges as a classroom teacher is to instill in my students a confidence and self-respect that helps empower them to make smart choices and avoid being taken advantage of.

But no matter how hard we try, there is definitely an exploitative and often misogynist element out there that prays on young children (girls in particular) and makes the challenge of helping them stay true to themselves even harder:

A MUCK-UP day party involving jelly wrestling by school-aged girls has been blasted by parents and a school in Bendigo.

Bendigo nightclub, Universal on McCrae, is advertising a party for Year 12 students which will include female students from two schools wrestling each other.

The flyer for the event says girls from Catholic College Bendigo and Bendigo Senior College will compete against each other while the male students can compete in a beer pong contest.

The party, titled War of the Worlds, is hosted by Home and Away actor Dan Ewing and the nightclub will be open until 5am with discounted spirits available.

A parent of an 18-year-old student in the region said the promotion was “absolutely disgusting”.

“It’s misogynist, sexist and close to what a strip club would do,” he told the Bendigo Advertiser.

It is not the first time the club has held a jelly wrestling competition with photos from previous events on the website and Facebook page.

A spokesman for the club could not be contacted.

Bendigo Senior College principal Dale Pearce said the jelly wrestling competition was being advertised by the Universal on McCrea nightclub without either school’s consent.

“This is appalling,” Mr Pearce told the Bendigo Advertiser website.

The Catholic College Bendigo has also been contacted for comment.

 

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Just Wait a Minute! This isn’t Madagascar!

October 24, 2012

What an unfortunate mistake! Not only was the wrong reel put in the projector, but the film which was supposed to be an animated family entertainment, instead became the scariest film of the year.

Parents have told how their children were left ‘scarred for life’ after cinema staff put on a horror film instead of a cartoon comedy.

There was panic in a Saturday-morning screening when 15-rated supernatural thriller Paranormal Activity 4 started playing instead of PG family movie Madagascar 3.

Youngsters reacted in horror as a ‘flashback’ scene from the original Paranormal Activity showed a bloodied corpse being hurled at the camera.

Around 25 families at the Cineworld cinema in Nottingham scrambled for the exits with their crying children – some as young as five – when the film started.Natasha Lewis, 32, had taken her eight-year-old son Dylan to see the film.The full-time mother, from Bulwell, Nottinghamshire, said: ‘Dylan wanted to see the new Madagascar film as he’s seen the others and they’re his favourite. He was really looking forward to it.

‘We sat down and it was meant to start at 10am, but it took until 10.30am for the lights to go down and for the trailers to start.

‘They started playing the movie and I thought – this doesn’t look right. And then I recognised the opening sequence as a flashback to the first movie, which I saw a couple of years ago.

‘It opens on the most terrifying scene in the first film – where a body shoots full pelt towards the camera.

‘It’s enough to make grown men jump, so you can imagine the terror in these young faces.

‘Everybody just scrambled for the exits, all you could hear were children crying and screaming. Everyone was very upset.

‘I’ve watched a few horror films in my time but the Paranormal Activity films are the scariest since the Exorcist.

‘It was only about two minutes worth of the film but it was enough to scar them for life.

‘There were parents and kids in there, including some children who were younger than Dylan.

‘The cinema needs to check the film before sending everyone in so they don’t make this mistake again.

Teaching the Student with Low Self Esteem

October 7, 2012

Courtesy of Dr. Ken Shore:

Praise the student in a specific and genuine way.Students are experts at distinguishing genuine feedback from empty compliments. They learn to dismiss vague words of praise as insincere, and perhaps even phony. Comments that suggest thoughtful appreciation of their work, on the other hand, are meaningful to them. Toward that end, let the student know in specific terms what you like about her work or behavior. If she is progressing slowly, praise her for small steps forward. If you sense that she’s uncomfortable being praised in front of her classmates, tell her in private or in a note.

Show the student tangible evidence of progress. Expressing confidence in a student’s ability is important; pep talks alone might not be enough, however. Help the student appreciate her own improvement by pointing to concrete signs of growth — perhaps by taping an oral reading at the beginning of the year and comparing it to a later performance, by showing her papers from earlier in the year and contrasting them with later papers, or by demonstrating that the math problems she struggled with during the first marking period now come easily to her. You might also have the student place in a box index cards with spelling or reading words she has mastered.

Showcase her accomplishments. You might read one of the student’s compositions to the class, display her artwork on a bulletin board, have her demonstrate how to do a math problem, or, in the case of an ESL student, invite her to speak to the class in her first language. If the student has a particular hobby or interest, suggest that she talk to the class about it. If necessary, have her rehearse her talk in advance.

Help the student feel important in class. You might give the student an important classroom job or find ways in which she can help others. Tell her you are giving her the responsibility because you are confident she can do it well. For example: have the student take care of the class rabbit, deliver lunch money to the office, collect homework, help another student with a computer problem, read aloud the school’s morning announcements, answer the school phone while the secretary is at lunch, or tutor a student in a lower grade.

Engage the student in conversation about her interests. A student can gain self-esteem from involvement in activities she cares about. Find a few minutes every day to talk with her about her favorite hobbies, sports, television programs, or musical groups. If necessary, ask her parents for the information you need as a basis for talking with her. Suggest to the student ways in which she can pursue her interests in greater depth. You might even bring in a book or item from home related to one of her interests.

Help the student deal with adversity. If the student encounters academic difficulties, help her appreciate that failure is a normal part of learning and that everyone experiences disappointment or frustration at some point. You might tell her that Lincoln lost seven elections before being elected president of the United States, or that Babe Ruth struck out 1,330 times during his career. Acknowledge the student’s frustration, and then move on to help her develop strategies for improvement. Express your confidence that –with hard work and your support — she is likely to succeed.

Encourage a sense of belonging. Students with low self-esteem often are isolated from their classmates. You can promote a student’s peer involvement with others by finding ways to integrate her into activities that are take place both in and out of school. You might organize a group activity that includes her. Or ask a couple of friendly and accepting students to spend time with her during recess or lunch. If students pair up for class activities, assign the student a kind and easygoing partner. You also might want to encourage the student’s parents to arrange additional social contacts with classmates, perhaps suggesting potential playmates.

Inform parents of their child’s successes. Teachers are quick to let parents know when their child has a problem. They are not nearly as diligent about notifying parents when their child is successful. Consider sending home a note or calling parents when their child does something noteworthy. Tell the student you are doing it. The gesture might take only a couple of minutes, but it can brighten the student’s day and engender positive responses from the parents to their child.

About Ken Shore

Dr. Kenneth Shore is a psychologist and chair of a child study team for the Hamilton, New Jersey Public Schools. He has written five books, including Special Kids Problem Solver and Elementary Teacher’s Discipline Problem Solver.

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Two-Year Olds Forced to Have Fingerprints and Mug Shots Taken

September 23, 2012

Talk about an absurd idea!

PRISON staff from scandal-hit security firm G4S took the fingerprints and mugshots of children as young as two who visited inmates at a new jail.

The practice was stopped only after a string of complaints to jail bosses at HMP Oakwood,  a privately run prison in Staffordshire that holds 1,605 offenders. 

The Mail on Sunday has discovered that over-zealous staff forced children who were visiting family members to pose for pictures and have electronic fingerprints taken, which were then stored on a computer at the prison.

The practice, which has drawn strong criticism from prison groups, continued for four weeks  earlier this year until prison governors held an inquiry and put a stop to it.

 

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Why Are Parents Defending this Sick Priest?

September 20, 2012

Playing sexualised games is indefensible, yet the parents of these children disagree:

A police investigation has been launched after a series of disturbing photos emerged showing schoolchildren licking whipped cream from the knee of a Polish priest.

The images – which are apparently part of an ‘initiation ceremony’ at Salesians High School in Lubin, southern Poland – show both male and female 13-year old pupils taking part in the bizarre practice.

Father Marcin Kozyra, who is also the school’s principal, has defended his actions by saying such ceremonies for first year pupils have been an annual event for many years.

In the photos the Catholic priest is shown sitting on a battered armchair, wearing shorts and with some form of stick across his knees.

The pupils are shown kneeling around Father Kozyra as they watch each other lick cream from his bare knee.

Other photos show the students crawling up the stairs in a single file on their hands and knees.

‘This is very disturbing,’ said Marek Michalak, the Polish government’s spokesman on child affairs, reported The Telegraph.

While some people have expressed shock over the pictures, which were posted on the school’s website, the parents of some pupils have come out in support of the priest.

In a letter of defence they claimed that the whipped cream was actually shaving foam and nobody was forced to eat it.

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Filling Our Children With Hate and Negativity

September 16, 2012

This picture makes me worry about the rising number of extremists and their indoctrination of our precious young. Our children need to see the positive aspects of humanity and be reminded of all the good there is in the world.

Schools Putting Spy Cameras in Toilets and Change Rooms

September 12, 2012

Under no circumstances should a school be able to spy on students in change rooms and toilets:

School pupils are being watched by an astonishing 100,000 spy cameras, a report revealed yesterday.

CCTV surveillance has been set up in playgrounds, classrooms and even toilets and changing rooms.

Some schools have a camera for every five children in the name of controlling violence, vandalism and theft. In fact, the average secondary now has 24 cameras and an academy 30.

In a development that has already provoked outrage among some parents, more than 200 schools have CCTV operating in changing rooms or toilets.

Top of the list for camera/pupil ratio is the Christ the King Catholic and Church of England Centre for Learning in Knowsley, Merseyside.

Cameras have been placed in changing rooms and toilets by 207 schools, which have 825 cameras in all trained on areas where pupils might expect to have a degree of privacy. Radcliffe Riverside School in Bury has the highest number of changing room cameras, with 20.

 

Is There No Better Way to Teach Fitness to Kids than Pole Dancing?

September 10, 2012

Surely this is not the best way to help children get fit:

A dance and fitness studio in Duncan, B.C. has sparked controversy after introducing a pole dancing class for young children.

Twisted Grip Dance and Fitness is offering the weekend class, Little Spinners, to boys and girls of all ages, owner Kristy Craig said.

Craig said she introduced the class due to demand from existing clients, and so far three girls and one boy have registered for classes, which start on Sept. 22. Her youngest student is just five years old and the oldest is about 12 years old.

Little Spinners will teach similar moves to those offered in adult sessions at the studio, including classes called Sexy Flexy, Pole Fit, Babes on Bikes and Bunny Bootcamp, Craig said.

“[The kids’ class has] some of the same moves, some of them are different, but yeah it’s very similar,” she said. “There’s definitely movements in [the adult classes] that are sexual, but there’s nothing geared toward stripping.”

Craig said pole dancing is a great way to get kids active and interested in exercise and wants to separate pole fitness from its stripping routes.

I find the complicit sexualisation of kids extremely concerning.

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The Courts are Pathetic in Punishing Paedophiles

September 1, 2012

Newsflash: Prison doesn’t just exist to rehabilitate, it is also there to take the scum off the street. A known paedophile should be locked away for a substantial period of time, regardless of whether or not it will ‘cure’ him of his sickness.

A paedophile who downloaded child porn has been spared jail after a judge said locking him up could be more dangerous to society in the long term.

Jason Fairfax, 35, of Bargoed, south Wales, had amassed a collection of around 2,700 indecent images when police raided his home earlier this year.

The photographs and videos were later graded from one to five – with the higher the category, the more serious the offence.

Cardiff Crown Court heard almost a third of the images were at the higher end of the scale – with 786 level four and 29 level five images.

The details of the photographs were so serious, Judge David Wyn Morgan asked the media not to publish their details.

He said: ‘When the police investigated your computer, they found a staggering number of images that were indecent.

‘There was a very large number of them at the top end of the scale, at level four and five.

‘The natural reaction of any decent human being would be that you should go to prison for as long as possible.

‘But when the revulsion has subsided, the court must consider precisely what that would achieve.

‘You would go into prison as sex offender and still come out as one – just as dangerous if not more so than you are at the moment.

‘And the protection of the public must be of paramount concern to the court.’

Instead what does this animal get?
Judge Morgan decided to make the defendant the subject of a sex offenders treatment programme for three years. He will also have to sign the sex offenders’ register until at least 2017 and undertake 250 hours of unpaid work.

Furthermore, Fairfax is not allowed to have any contact with any children under the age of 16 – either in person, on the telephone or via the internet – without the approval of their parents.

He is also banned from deleting the browsing history on his computer as well as erasing any images from a digital camera or camera phone without permission from the police.

This judgement is absolutely terrifying. We must not put up with it.

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