As a continuation of my previous post about the unfair attention given to a teacher who doubled as a writer of adult fiction, I felt it was worthwhile concentrating on the role of parents in education. There is no doubt that parents are an essential stakeholder in the education process. Teachers are accountable to parents in the same way they are to other stakeholders. However, there are times when parents can become too obtrusive. The hysteria that abounded concerning this poor teacher was completely unwarranted and unfair.
Below I have some recommendations for issues parents should feel free to take up with their child’s teacher:
– Why is my child not progressing?
– Why is my child not able to understand the set homework?
– How is my child managing socially?
– What steps and consequences did you implement when my child was being bullied?
These are questions and issues which parents might be best not focussing on:
1. What the teacher does in his/her private time
2. How come my child isn’t up to the standard of child ‘x’?
3. Can you please comment on the teaching skills of a colleague?
4. Why has my child not received an award or certificate this year?
Whilst parents are encouraged to raise concerns with teachers, it is important to remember that teachers are human, usually fair and often try their best. To make the education process run smoothly the teacher needs the trust and support of the parents. In turn, the parents need to be kept up to date with what their child is doing and how they are coping.
To conclude, I wish to thank my readers for their constructive criticism of my previous post. I was rightly pulled up on some of my opinions and have changed my position accordingly. I strongly recommend that you visit the blogs of those that so eloquently argued for the poor teacher’s right to privacy and tolerance. Their blogs reflect the insight and wisdom of their comments. I am so fortunate to have such clear-minded and compassionate readers. Thank You!



