Posts Tagged ‘Jeff Collins’

Would Good Parents Ever Sign Up for a Reality TV Show?

July 13, 2012

A good parent, like a good teacher, makes mistakes on a regular basis. The difference is, that they reflect on their mistakes and work on strategies for continuous improvement.

I am not convinced that good parents would ever feel comfortable advertising their skills to a prime time television audience.

But there are many out there desperate for their 15 minutes:

Those who believe their parenting skills are worthy of an audience have many chances to be seen in the near future. Apparently reality show producers also think the whole world needs to weigh in on different ways to raise children, based on the sample of casting calls made recently.

The latest, from the people who bring you “Dance Moms” and “American Stuffers,” will be called “Extreme Parenting” (if one of the “multiple” cable networks bidding on the show come through, says producer Jeff Collins).

He was inspired to create the show, he says, after watching the national paroxysms of outrage over the Time magazine cover showing self-described “attachment parent” Jamie Lynne Grumet breastfeeding her 3-year-old son.

“I think it is fascinating when Americans find something to be provocative and upsetting,” Collins explains. “We are a country of extremes. The shows I do peel back the curtain on the choices people make — some of them will outrage other people.”

Extreme Parenting: Just What We Don’t Need

July 11, 2012

Quality parenting is just not entertaining enough. As long as reality television continues to abound, the only parenting tips on offer will be from those we should be readily dismissing:

The hotly debated practice of breastfeeding beyond infancy has earned itself a close-up investigation as part of a new reality television show.

Extreme Parenting will look at a range of America’s kookiest parenting rituals, shedding a spotlight further on the much-hyped arguments for and against weaning your child after the age of one.

The show, created by the team behind Bridezillas and Dance Moms, picks up where Jamie Lynne Grumet left off in the debate when she graced the cover of Time magazine with her four-year-old son latched onto her breast.

Jeff Collins, president of Collins Avenue Productions, who is developing the show  told Yahoo! Shine: ‘That cover proves what I’ve been saying for the last year – America has become a country of extremes.

Of course there is a place for serious discussions about breastfeeding and attachment parenting, but unfortunately you are unlikely to get it from this show.

Reality television parenting shows are responsible for setting back parenting standards. These shows allow parents who have a lot of growing to do the false satisfaction that “at least I am better than those people.”
What we really need is a show for serious parents that takes parenting seriously.